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don't be administrator
although islam makes husband as household leader, moslem is forbidden to be dictator or tyrant. moslem is taught to serve wife well. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace ever bersabda “sebaik-baik the faithful one who memilik good behaviour, and one who best between you one who do a kindness to istrinya”
be patner in take decision
follow principle syuro’ and make decision as family. household harmony more if decision that is taken not unilateral and all family members is part from decision making.
don't be emotional
don't ever emotional either through physical also way of thinking to pair. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace never hurt the wife. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace ever bersabda “bagaimana they can make to make their wifes menyiang day as slave, and sleep with their wife at evening hari”
be careful with pronunciation
be careful with pronunciation whom you say when in the doldrums or emotional. sometimes you will say something that never be said when not angry. if you are angry, wait up to you are calm before begin conversation.
attention indication
attention indication in your pair. posed good, explanation and pity.
appreciation indication
demo appreciation towards our pair does for family. don't ever make husband/wife felts that he insufficient in family or you not satisfied by what he does or perkerjaan, except, of course if he is too lazy and never try to make happy family. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace bersabda “pada doomsday later, allah will not see woman will not thanked to suaminya”.
cooperate in housewifery
prophet may allah bless him and give him peace known to help istri-istri in housework. if prophet may allah bless him and give him peace doesn't do perkerjaan, so a husband will not melakuka.
communication important matter
communication, communication, communication! words often said in counselling and really the mentioned necessary done. wife husband necessary mutual speak. better if in face of problem is talked about more early and opened,
forget problem that expire.
don't ever mengungkit-ungkit problem that finished at past.
simple alive
don't felt jealous with another person alive better than we. allah that give portion. will see another person alive less than we shall make us will felt gratefuler. grateful will give many benefits to us.
give time pair to self
when does your pair not want always together a spell of, meaningless he doesn't love you. person wants time to self with various reason. sometimes they want to read, think individual problem or only want relaks. don't make them feel guilty when want self.
admit error
when do you make error, confess error. when does your pair make a error, soon forgive. if make possible don't bring anger mewaktu sleep.
important physical connection.
always prepare time to do sex, don't connected sex with egoist. posed patient towards when do sex pair.
mess together;with
if maked, sering-sering mess together;with. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace never criticize food that served to it.
don't discuss problem suami-istri with another person
don't ever discuss wedding with your pair something that another person doesn't admit you to talk about it, unless there reason islami to do so. several suami-istri, believe or not, will talk about their pair physical condition to another person. this matter may not be done, information about matters only may be known by you and your pair. good wedding needs patience and keramaha, sacrifice, empathy, love, explanation, hard work, mutual forgive. all that can at relate in one sentence: always treat pair by as we want another person does towards we.
don't be administrator
although islam makes husband as household leader, moslem is forbidden to be dictator or tyrant. moslem is taught to serve wife well. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace ever bersabda “sebaik-baik the faithful one who memilik good behaviour, and one who best between you one who do a kindness to istrinya”
be patner in take decision
follow principle syuro’ and make decision as family. household harmony more if decision that is taken not unilateral and all family members is part from decision making.
don't be emotional
don't ever emotional either through physical also way of thinking to pair. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace never hurt the wife. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace ever bersabda “bagaimana they can make to make their wifes menyiang day as slave, and sleep with their wife at evening hari”
be careful with pronunciation
be careful with pronunciation whom you say when in the doldrums or emotional. sometimes you will say something that never be said when not angry. if you are angry, wait up to you are calm before begin conversation.
attention indication
attention indication in your pair. posed good, explanation and pity.
appreciation indication
demo appreciation towards our pair does for family. don't ever make husband/wife felts that he insufficient in family or you not satisfied by what he does or perkerjaan, except, of course if he is too lazy and never try to make happy family. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace bersabda “pada doomsday later, allah will not see woman will not thanked to suaminya”.
cooperate in housewifery
prophet may allah bless him and give him peace known to help istri-istri in housework. if prophet may allah bless him and give him peace doesn't do perkerjaan, so a husband will not melakuka.
communication important matter
communication, communication, communication! words often said in counselling and really the mentioned necessary done. wife husband necessary mutual speak. better if in face of problem is talked about more early and opened,
forget problem that expire.
don't ever mengungkit-ungkit problem that finished at past.
simple alive
don't felt jealous with another person alive better than we. allah that give portion. will see another person alive less than we shall make us will felt gratefuler. grateful will give many benefits to us.
give time pair to self
when does your pair not want always together a spell of, meaningless he doesn't love you. person wants time to self with various reason. sometimes they want to read, think individual problem or only want relaks. don't make them feel guilty when want self.
admit error
when do you make error, confess error. when does your pair make a error, soon forgive. if make possible don't bring anger mewaktu sleep.
important physical connection.
always prepare time to do sex, don't connected sex with egoist. posed patient towards when do sex pair.
mess together;with
if maked, sering-sering mess together;with. prophet may allah bless him and give him peace never criticize food that served to it.
don't discuss problem suami-istri with another person
don't ever discuss wedding with your pair something that another person doesn't admit you to talk about it, unless there reason islami to do so. several suami-istri, believe or not, will talk about their pair physical condition to another person. this matter may not be done, information about matters only may be known by you and your pair. good wedding needs patience and keramaha, sacrifice, empathy, love, explanation, hard work, mutual forgive. all that can at relate in one sentence: always treat pair by as we want another person does towards we.
